Dear Discussion Gang,My man looked through my phone and saw these terrible texts between me and someone I’ve been friends with for over 15 years (and dated for 1). We’ve always had this friend dynamic of talking dirty and lovey to each other. We are part of the same friend group and we’re all like that with him. He’s a virgin waiting for marriage btw. I know I was wrong to participate in the texts and I feel so stupid bc I had something so special with my guy. I also feel violated that he looked through my phone behind my back but he says I have no right to be mad. He believes I’ve cheated and done so with multiple people. He doesn’t seem to want to give us a chance. Is there any coming back from this? Would you say it’s cheating if I didn’t act on it?