Dear Discussion Gang, My man looked through my phone and saw these terrible texts between me and someone I’ve been friends with for over 15 years (and dated for 1). We’ve always had this friend dynamic of talking dirty and lovey to each other. We are part of the same friend group and we’re all like that with him. He’s a virgin waiting for marriage btw. I know I was wrong to participate in the texts and I feel so stupid bc I had something so special with my guy. I also feel violated that he looked through my phone behind my back but he says I have no right to be mad. He believes I’ve cheated and done so with multiple people. He doesn’t seem to want to give us a chance. Is there any coming back from this? Would you say it’s cheating if I didn’t act on it?
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Whoa….idk though….like your dynamic may be different from mine…..but I would be hurt if I was your man. you have to choose what’s more important, you want to keep your friendship or your relationship, you say you were kidding but to me that’s a bit aggressive for kidding and your current partner seems not to appreciate that…but like….he’s never not going to want to go through your phone again so you want to think about that being a possibility too…..i guess it’s not cheating but you deff fucked up imo
Just leave. You're arguing a moot point with someone who violated your privacy. He ain't even cool enough to be in the group chat. embrace your freedom and leave, that way you can have the conversations you want to.
I don’t even need to read that far lol unless the two people were married someone is for the STREETS