Past DG Guests
If an invited guest came to your home and started cleaning, how would you feel?
Idk I was always taught there was a time and a place. And neither was right. Yes it was my house but he would have lost 1 of 4 daughters and probably never seen his grand daughter again had I reacted. And I was fully aware I was the only "white" person in the house. My husband and his ex are both Native American. The daughter and grand daughter that belongs to 1 if the other daughters are half black half native. I was NOT about to have that situation read wrong by the white law people here in West Virginia and fuck up everyone's life. So I kept my mouth shut and let my husband and the daughter handle it.
I'm Usually the cleaning friend. But I'll only do that if the friend I'm visiting is comfortable with me and I know they won't take offense if I help.
A lot of that would depend on how close I am with them or the situation. Okay. My best friend comes over knows I've been in a depressive low and helps out yeah I'm going to be happy uplifted, plus we can talk I'll be encouraged to help etc. But like when my husbands ex came when we needed her for power of attorney for the daughter and she basically was throwing shade not knowing the situation and shit talked me in my own house despite both my husband and their daughter standing up and saying that isn't right no I wasn't happy. I had to really resist getting my first charge.
Ooooof. An ex??? I might've thrown hands
I really wanted to. But the grand daughter was here and at the time she was only 4 months old and the daughter was trying to live with us. My husband isn't her biological father but he's been there for her since she was less than a year old. So I knew how important it was to him and to her. So I let them handle it. But yeah she basically tried to take over my house, cooking, cleaning and all. She went back home said something to my husband and he flipped. She said something along the lines of my mental health would kill him, and what would she do without him. To which he replied same shit you've always done move the fuck on and find someone else to get up under and use and con. Haven't heard from her since and now I'm blocked lmao. 🤷♀️
Ah you're very mature. We just talked on discussion gangsters the other night about how you have to be careful being violent when you have things to lose