Past DG Guests
What's the most difficult decision you've ever had to make?
Moving away from Tallahassee so I could get a job .. cuz I had a kid.. and couldn’t find a job there.. had I born she with Our kid I never would have moved away .. but you live abs you learn
An abortion.. my mom was 15 when she had me.. I wouldn’t be here.. woman in topic was religious.. she made me relapse to opiates Again.. I was unhealthy.. but they helped.. downfall.. she got preggo.. told her I don’t think it’s the right time.. we’re addicts.. still blames me to this day.. “I killed our baby” is how that comes out.. even though I said I would support her decision no matter what.. it’s just not my personal belief it’s a good time.. still fucks with me.. but tf I was supposed to bring a child into a life like that ? The hard part.. is knowing you made a child.. and opt out that decision.. for the better of the child.. but somehow.. also feels selfish.. even tho I don’t believe that life existed prior to birth.. it’s daunting..
That was def a difficult decision but you're right at the end of the day it was up to her what she wanted to do and unless you forced her, you didn't "kill her baby". And it would've been hard af and almost selfish to bring up a kid in that life. I've never heard the child of an addict say the had a fun childhood.