Sometimes men don't eat pussy. And women feel like if they don't eat pussy they shouldn't get their dicks sucked.
Is that treating them equally or is that punishing them for not being comfortable with something?
Think about it
If a man says he don't eat pussy, that's him expressing a boundary or a sexual act that he's not comfortable doing. So if you then withhold the 2 hand glawk glawk 3000 with the spinning tongue combo, are you punishing him for not being comfortable with it?