Yall... can we talk about how Pablo (Tik Tok) got exposed for being abusive???

So I just severed a 6 year friendship i had with a guy because he has this drinking problem, when he drinks he becomes aggressive almost in a rapey manner, the first time he behaved like this he forced a kiss on me and told him to never do it again. He apologized and assured me he wouldn't act like that again. Well last night he tried to be aggressive again trying to force kisses on me and my girlfriends, i honestly had enough of him not controlling his emotions and stuff. So i confronted him and told him to seek help, treatment, or whatever the fuck he needs to go to get his ego in check. Do i feel bad about the friendship ending? No. But sometimes people need to start taking accountability for their behavior rather than blaming it on drinking.

So im newly divorcee as of yesterday, after being with someone for close to five years (including dating and marriage) is there rule for how soon someone can move on?